Friday, May 14, 2010
60 FACTS about girls that guys should know :)
2) We are just as shy as you are about relationships
3) Many of us don't let you see us cry, unless we want you to comfort us
4) We like dropping small flirts, to see if you are interested. But we will later deny it or make it into a joke
5) Most of us prefer to be call beautiful than hot or sexy. But not all of us
6) We only wear mini skirts, tank tops and skimpy cloths for you (unless it's REALLY REALLY hot outside). So if you don't like what we wear say something likely look really nice today, but you know...I think I like you in jeans better'
7) We travel in groups for one of two reasons 1) because we want to share some form of gossip with each other or get advice on something 2) B/c we don't want to get caught by ourselves with you because we won't know what to say and are afraid we'll make a fool of ourselves
8) MOST girls spend about 15% of the time thinking about specific guys, 20% thinking of guys in general, 25% thinking of how to get guys to notice us and what to say when we do, 30% of the time TALKING about guys (even if someone else isn't listening), and 10% of the time doing something else
9) Girls automatically assume that all guys are ***** and only want to get into our pants until you prove otherwise (and even then some small part of us still thinks that)
10) Most girls are under the impression that guys only want skinny 'hot' girls
11) Most girls enjoy being paraded around once in awhile in front of your friends. We enjoy having you show us off to your friends, kind of like, 'Hey, look at my hot ass girlfriend! Aren't you jealous?" But we don't enjoy being nothing but a trophy girl
12) Nicknames like "Babe, or darling" are safe to call just about any girl. But beware of "Princess or Angel". Some girls will take offense to this thinking you are calling them to innocent or incapable of taking care of themselves.
13) Speaking of nicknames, almost every girl has ONE nickname that they just love to be called
14) Most girls will drop lots of hints to tell you that they like you, but won't come right out and say" I like you" or "I love you". If you think they like you, there is a good chance they do.
15) Scenario time! -You like a girl named Ashley, Ashley has a friend named Brenda. Brenda comes up you in the hall and asks "Do you like Ashley?"
More often than not in this scenario Ashley asked Brenda to ask you because she is to shy to ask you herself. And even if she didn't the first thing Brenda is going to do with your answer is tell Ashley. Now you are thinking "WHAT!? NO!! DON"T TELL HER THAT!!!" but in reality, this is a good thing. Because there is a good chance she already likes you. And if she doesn't, she will now be looking at you in a different way, and let me tell you. It's a lot easier to fall for a guy if you already know they like you. So its safe. So go ahead and tell Brenda that you like Ashley. Take a chance.
16) Girls hate it when guys say perverted things.
17) Girls love to feel special, even though they might not show it
18) Girls talk about everything with their girl friends. So unless you tell us not to tell them about something, they WILL know about it within 3 days. And if you are the girl's boyfriend, that means, you're possibly 90% of their conversation. And believe me, trash talking takes up most of it, unless you're a Greek god, which you're not...
19) Girls hate guys with bad hygiene.
20) Girls love it when a guy pulls them close by the waist
21) Most girls like a guy that will willing dance with them, even if he doesn't know how
22) Usually, when a girl is sarcastically mean to you, it means they're attracted to you, but are afraid that they'll be showing too much
23) A kiss on the hand with the right timing can be a REAL TURN-ON
24) Some girls can think about their crushes for 18+ hours straight. No exaggeration
25) When a guy says something really sentimental, girls will remember it forever
26) Girls get embarrassed easily, even if guys don't know what the hell just happened.
27) Girls daydream about their crushes ALL the time. They just don't show it.
28) When a girl is upset and wants you to listen, she wants you to listen. She doesn't need you to fix it or tell her how to. She just wants you to listen.
29) When a girl is crying, she feels a lot safer if you pull her close and tell her that everything is going to be all right. And more likely than not, it will endear them to you more than anything else.
30) Girls love it when guys say their name
31) Girls love confidence
32) When a girl cooks for you, you know you mean a lot to her
33) Girls hate it when other girls flirt. Yet they flirt themselves too. Ah, the beauty of irony
34) We don't enjoy talking dirty to you as much as you enjoy listening.
35) Saying something sweet might get you off the hook; doing something sweet will always get you off the hook.
36) Size does matter, but only to hoes; not girls that want relationships.
37) No matter what you say, your ex-girlfriend is a hoe to us. Not because we don't like your taste in women, because believe me WE do! its just that...we don't want to have to wonder if she is better than us. And if she is a hoe, we are better. So it makes things simple for us.
38) We are self-conscious by nature; we can't help it. But we CAN try and hide it.
39) Even if you think it is cool to burp, fart, or emit other strange gases from your body, it is not. Though we sometimes will tell you it is.
40) As far as you are concerned, we are beautiful at all times, and don't tell us different, unless you make it sound like a compliment (even if it isn't) Like, "You were really pretty yesterday when you wore -insert clothing/accessory here-, I think you should wear that more often"
41) Whatever you do, don't just show up at our house unexpected or at least without ringing the door bell...we run around in our underwear just like you do. And no matter how much you would like to see that, we will likely never talk to you again
42) DON'T CHEAT ON US. It may seem foolproof, but girls tell each other everything about everything. Trust me, they WILL find out and you will be dirt.
43) We want you to beware of every male relative and all guy friends. All of them would kick your ass at the drop of a hat, and a lot of them wouldn't even wait for the damn hat. We just don't want you to be too obvious.
44) We enjoy being kissed by you in front of your friends. It makes us feel like you care a lot about us.
45) You don't have PMS; so don't act like you know what it's like. Don't try to understand...believe me you never will.
46) Violent statements like "If that guy keeps looking at you, I'm going to tear his head off" are appealing
47) We don't want you to say you love us if you don't mean it
48) We love it when you make eye contact with us while we talk.
49) Most girls are afraid of losing our independence to guys (for some unknown reason)
50) If you ask a girl out directly, more likely than not, she will say yes to you. Even if she only has lukewarm feelings for you, because it will give her the chance to get to know you better and get to like you even more.
51) Most girls love it when guys ask them for advice.
52) Girls like it when you tell us what you are thinking, even if you don't understand it yourself
53) After you've been dating for a while, realize that we really have started to trust you. When you have a girlfriend who truly trusts you, you have a lot more responsibility, privilege and control than you would think. Be careful with it, most guys would kill for that kind of power, and it can be lost in a nanosecond
54) There is nothing wrong with being attentive and sensitive. However, this behavior can be carried too far. You don't have to hang on our every word or give in to our every whim. The thrill of the chase doesn't end after the first successful pick-up line. If you don't present us with some minor challenges, we're likely to get bored, or worse, feel that you're creepy and obsessive.
55) Variety is the spice of life. There are patterns underlying what your woman says she likes and doesn't like. It would benefit you far more to try and discern the nature of these than to repeat everything she admits to enjoying until she no longer does
56) Most men think the chase ends once they have us, but truly it has only just began.You must work even harder to keep us then you do you earn us. We not some trophy you can earn,put on a shelf and admire. You have to care for us like the living human beings we are.(see 54)
57)WHEN WE SAY NO ITS NO, SO STOP ASKING!!!
58)If someone flirts with you, its a complement. If you're not interested, accept it but dont flirt back.
59)The woman in your life needs to hear how you feel about her, and often. Tell her now
60)All women are complicated, and it is doubtful any man will ever fully be able to understand us.But we know that, so its going to be ok.
Thursday, May 13, 2010
sorry , late update :)
here are some pictures :)
more at my fb account :D
and next , we went swimming at the sports complex , fun but tiring as well ... and i got double sun burn !! hahaha :P
more at my fb
and at night , we went to watch the P2F concert , sorry I can't upload the pix here , i accidentally deleted the folder , thanks to the virus =.=" hahahaha , but you can check it out at my fb :D
thats all :D
Sunday, May 9, 2010
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY !! ♥♥
The kindest voice I'll ever hear.
The one who cares the most for me
Is my own mother dear.
All through the year
I'll try to do
The things that show
My love for you.
And not be happy just to say,
"I love you, Mother," on Mother's Day. ♥♥
ibu,engkau sentiasa ada untuk ku....
oleh itu aku bertekad,
selagi hayat dikandung badan ,
aku akan sentiasa mendampingimu..
aku tahu kasih sayang ku curahkan untukmu
tak setanding kasih sayang ibu kepada anaknya..
namun,engkau terimalah keikhlasan ku
untuk menyayangi insan yang mulia ini..
dengan iringan kasih dan doa,
selamat hari ibu,saya sayang ibu ♥ ♥
happy mother's day to my best friend,
my teacher,my talking pal,my guardian angel
--->> my beloved mummy...
Thank you for all those years,
since 8th november 1995 ,
you cherished my birth with love and prayers..
Although my love for you cannot compete
your love for me and my brother,
but give me a chance to love a special ...person,
YOU ! HAppy mothers' day :') ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
Thursday, May 6, 2010
pembuangan anak
I don't know why tiba tiba , tangan ku gatal menaip "pembuangan anak" arah google , i seriously DON'T KNOW WHY . but my conclusion : manusia terkadang lebih bodah daripada binatang . *sorry aku kasar , but its the truth*
and so to talk about this , manusia yang melakukan zina yang melahirkan dan membuang anak nya itu adalah sebodoh bodoh segala jenis kebodohan . what the heck ??!! i mean seriously , if they don't want the child they could just let people adopt the child , walaupun kan menyembunyi kan ke aiban durang atu bah , tapi anak damit atu INDA BERDOSA .
aku sendiri nda faham, kenapa mesti buang anak damit atu...??? Sepatutnya bayi yang baru lahir tu dibelai...disusui..rezeki pemberian Allah..seharusnya dihargai... Di luar sana, ramai lagi bah pasangan suami istri yang mau sangat sangat sangat kan dapat anak bah, tapi rezeki alum lagi sampai . Kalau dah banar banar nda kan beguna lagi anak damit biskita atu, bagi tia saja arah orang orang yang menginginkan..HuH!!
adakah ini ADIL ??
bukankah ini KEJAM ??!!
adakah kamu ini BODOH ?? lebih BODOH daripada binatang . binatang lagi kan pandai menjaga anak , pandai kan di susui di belai anaknya atu , ani pembuang anak ni cemana ??
andai anak kecil yang berhati kudus tak berdosa ini bisa berkata kata , pasti akan mengatakan sebegini :
"mana ayah ?
mana ibu ?
sakit ...
sungguh sakit ...
perit ...
sungguh perit ....
kau membuang ku bagai sampah ,
kau memandang ku bak najis ,
tapi jika kau beri aku peluang ,
peluang untuk hidup di dunia ini ,
jika kau renung aku bak intan permata ,
jika kau ukir aku dari kain putih
untuk menjadi batik yang indah ,
jika engkau membelai,
membesarkan aku ,
aku pasti bisa menjaga mu hingga ke hari tua mu
jika hayat dikandung badan
Aku akan sentiasa mendampingimu
Membelai dan menjagamu hingga ke hari tua
jika kau tidak membuang ku
jika kau tidak menjelajahi lembah zina
aku yakin
aku yakin sekali
nyawa ku ini tidak melayang
aku juga yakin
aku juga bisa memberi kasih sayang kepada insan
insan yang mulia yang bernama kedua orang tua ku
aku juga ingin seperti anak anak kecil yang lain
mereka di belai
mereka di usap
mereka di susui
aku ?
malah aku tidak pernah merasa belaian mu
tidak pernah merasa usapan mu
tidak juga pernah merasa kasih sayang mu
kejam nya dunia
kejam nya engkau ,
ayah
ibu
belum ku sempat meningkat remaja
belum ku sempat ku menikmati indah manisnya hidup
belum sempat ku tempuhi cabaran
belum sempatku melakukan apa apa
belum sempat membuka mata
telah kau ragut nyawa ku
telah kau buang aku :
di tandas
longkang
sampah
hutan
tubuh ku di mamah :
ulat
semut
anjing liar,
ini adalah tidak adil !
ayah,
ibu,
bukankah kalian sepatutnya
menjaga dan membelai ku
tapi kau melakukan sebaliknya
hanya semata hasutan syaitan durjana
engkau menjelajahi lembah zina
engkau melahirkan anak luar nikah
ingin menutup ke aiban mu
akhirnya engkau membuang anak
namun itu sama sekali bukan penyelesai nya
kerana kini....
kini , martabatmu begitu HINA
di mata masyarakat
di mata keluargamu
engkau HINA
hanya semata kau membuang ku
kau meragut nyawa ku
mana kasih sayang mu ,
ayah ?
ibu ?
di mana ?
di mana kasih sayang mu ??"
hasil karya -Amal K.-
thank you for reading :)